Vincent AcelingMeeting Women: Know Your Options... Build Your Confidence!
August 16th 2008 05:10
Which one?
I can remember when I first started learning how to meet women... I always assumed that no sensible woman would just give out her phone number to a complete stranger. But then I found out that no woman is always sensible all the time!
Women seem to give out their phone numbers and email addresses so readily - but you just have to push the right buttons! One concept that may help you in your quest is that of having "options". When a guy has options, it changes everything! Imagine that you have a date on a particular evening plus three women to email or call; the playing field is tipped in your favor, than when you have nothing going on.
Because you have options, you feel solid, you speak with more confidence, and you communicate in a different way. One of the reasons that attractive women come across so powerfully is because they themselves have many options.
Think with your head!
One of the benefits of learning how to be more successful with women and dating is that you learn to create your options. When you know that you can walk out the door anytime you want and meet women, it frees up a lot of mental energy that was previously focused on other things and release the anxiety of rejection. This is energy that you can use to improve other areas of your life.
So, how do you create options? You have to be more liberal with your decisions... make contact with as many people as you can: Co-workers, friends of friends, networking groups, and societies are all good avenues to ensure the creation of your options. The more you get involved in various social circles, the more your iPhone or Blackberry begins to fill up, and the more your probability to meet women increases!
Hugh: A man with too many options!
So, go out there and start creating options! Once you have those options, you'll have more confidence!
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